Why relationships

Torstein Vabo
2 min readAug 18, 2021
Love, By Alexander Milov

In relationships there is only opportunity. Opportunity to discover myself in, of and through the other human.

All connections I have to everything in my life is an opportunity to see my self clearer, to create who I am.

I have no obligation in a relationship. I can choose to see everything in my relationships as an opportunity.

Am I in a relationship to end loneliness? To fill a gap? To receive Love from someone? To end my depression? To recover from previous relationships?

What does it mean “to fall in Love”?

Do I fall in Love with the other person, or do I fall in Love with what I experience inside myself when I am in the company of this other person?

I will enter relationships for the right reason.

Is the purpose and intention of my relationships to create an opportunity — and not an obligation? To create an opportunity for growth, for full self-expression, for lifting my life to the highest potential. To heal every false thought or small idea I have ever had about me.

Relationships is about opening up my heart and soul. A gift in life, to learn about myself through the perspectives of others. To learn, discover, be inspired, be captivated, be seen, be loved.

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